The Bonds of Blood and Choice: Mariam and Aziza
A Thousand Splendid SunsTraces the unique relationship between Mariam and Aziza, from the first night they meet to Mariam's death and Aziza's memory of her.
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Bearing strength in each event
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First Encounter in the Night

An Unexpected Connection
The Night of the Beating
After Rasheed threatens Mariam, Laila and Aziza sleep on the floor in the living room. Mariam finds them there. She hunkers down and talks to the baby.
The Baby Grabs Her Finger
Aziza grabs Mariam's pinkie. Mariam is moved. She whispers to the baby, calling her a sorry sight dressed in boy's clothes. She feels an unexpected tenderness.
A Bond Forms
From that night, Mariam is drawn to Aziza. She begins to care for her, despite her resentment of Laila. Aziza becomes the light in Mariam's dark life.
Mariam as Second Mother

A Child's Love
Daily Care
Mariam teaches Aziza prayers, draws elephants for her, makes her a doll. Aziza calls her Khala Mariam. They are inseparable. Mariam feels wanted for the first time.
The Doll
Mariam stitches a doll for Aziza, stuffing it with beans. Aziza clings to it. The doll becomes a symbol of Mariam's love.
The Orphanage Separation
When Aziza is sent to the orphanage, Mariam is devastated. She visits when she can. The separation is a deep wound for both.
Mariam's Legacy in Aziza

Living Memory
Aziza's Grief
Aziza is sad when Mariam is gone. She keeps the doll. She stutters for a while. But she also remembers Khala Mariam's love.
The Prayers
Aziza prays five times a day, a habit Mariam taught her. The prayers are a way to stay connected. Laila sees Mariam in Aziza's devotion.
A New Home
In Murree and later in Kabul, Aziza thrives. She accepts Tariq as her father. She is bright and strong. Mariam's love lives on in her.
summer 1993, when Aziza is a few months old
1993-2001, Aziza's early childhood
2001-2003, after Mariam's death